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While the Children are Being Judged: Opportunities to Build Attachment
Stressful moments of performing are really an opportunity to build upon a healthy attachment. Let's win on emotional connection regardless of how well the performance goes.
Andrew Howlett
Jul 94 min read


Dads can be great role models for managing anger. Here's how:
Anger is such an important emotion, one that needs to be acknowledged and talked about. And as Dads, we can be great role models in helping our kids manage this feeling.
Andrew Howlett
Jun 297 min read


The Walking Dad: 5 Benefits of Walking
Ever since I can remember, my father was a walker. He walked with us on his shoulders and a leash in his hand. On his own, he walked for over an hour most days. My friends’ parents would often say to me, “I saw your dad out walking in his fur hat.” As a teenager, I don’t remember ever joining him for one of these long walks, I would have seen no value in that at the time. Now that I am in my forties I wonder what those walks would have been like or what it would mean to go fo
Andrew Howlett
May 314 min read


Embracing the Awkward: A Father’s Guide to Middle Childhood
Most parents think the teenage years are when everything changes. They’re not.The real shift often begins earlier—during the middle years, long before we expect it.

Andrew Howlett
May 174 min read


Dads and Celiac Disease
I thought I understood celiac disease when I learned about it in medical school more than twenty years ago. In truth, I didn’t fully appreciate how significant this condition can be. At the time, I mistakenly grouped celiac disease with lactose intolerance. While both can cause digestive symptoms, they are fundamentally different. Lactose intolerance occurs when the small intestine produces less lactase, the enzyme needed to digest lactose, the sugar found in milk. The result
Andrew Howlett
May 104 min read


Building a Legacy as a Father is an Everyday Practice: Values, Being Present, and Repair
When most of us hear the word legacy, we think about the end of life, what we leave behind, and how we will be remembered. But legacy isn’t something you create later, it is something you’re building quietly every ordinary day.
For fathers, legacy often shows up less in big achievements and more in patterns: how you show up when you’re tired, how you repair after mistakes, how you take care of yourself while taking care of others.

Andrew Howlett
Apr 102 min read


130/80, Never Higher. What’s Your Blood Pressure?
If you want to live long—and stay present for the people who matter most—you need to pay attention to the risk factors that lead to the number one cause of death among fathers: heart disease.

Andrew Howlett
Jan 272 min read


When Should Fathers Ask for Help? 5 Questions to Consider
When it comes to our health, every father asks for help eventually. The real question is when.
Some men seek help early—motivated by a desire to optimize their mental performance, strengthen relationships, and function at their best. Others delay until health problems become overwhelming, when suffering is intense or daily life is no longer manageable. Most fathers fall somewhere in between. Where we land on that spectrum matters.

Andrew Howlett
Jan 273 min read


Think of Fatherhood as a Neighbourhood: Finding Strength in Community
It is important to have other dads in your life, men who can relate to your experiences, get you out of the house and show up if needed.
It is particularly difficult to connect with other expectant or new fathers.

Andrew Howlett
Jan 263 min read


3 Things Men Should Do 3 Months Before Getting Pregnant
Your lifestyle can have a significant impact on your fertility and the health and wellness of your baby to be. There are dozens of things you can do before a positive test.
From healthy habits to communication and planning, what you do now can shape fertility, pregnancy, and the kind of parent you become. Before you start trying, here are five thoughtful steps worth taking.
This is just a draft blog to get a sense of how it will look.

Andrew Howlett
Jan 262 min read
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